We were joined yesterday by a colleague of David's from Atlanta, plus his wife and two of their three children. They are also good friends of ours and we were happy to put them up for the night. They had been visiting friends and family in Germany and were going to try to catch the Atlanta flight out of Frankfurt yesterday morning.

Issam and Haike and their kids are flying standby, as did David's parents just a few day ago to visit us. Over dinner last night, we talked about the highs and lows of flying standby. Here's what we concluded: When it works and you get on that first or second flight you try, it's the greatest thing! Flying for almost nothing! And sometimes you even get bumped up to Business Class.
Issam suggested that Micaela and I should just fly to Rome one day for pizza. Or to Paris for a few hours of shopping. We could be back in time to read Rebecca a bedtime story. He said that many Lufthansa employees just show up in the airport early in the morning when they have a few days off, check and see what flights have seats and hop on a plane, destination unknown until just a few minutes before they board. Hmmm, should we go to Barcelona, Vienna or St. Petersburg today?
When it doesn't work, you just cannot even imagine at the time a more frustrating experience. It just isn't worth it. What a waste of a day! And then you need to ask yourself if it makes sense catching another flight to a different city and then trying to get from that place to your final destination.
We all commiserated, all of us having had the experience of spending an entire day (or two) at the airport, trying to get home. One time was when David, his parents and I were trying to fly out of Frankfurt after having attended a family reunion in Finland back in the 90s. The thing I remember most vividly was how you were not allowed to enter the gate and have a seat until just a little while before the flight and you had to have been assigned a seat. So we and scores of other standby passenger spent an entire day
standing at the Frankfurt Airport. There were no other seats around except inside the gates. I think we may have take turns sitting on our suitcases. An understanding and generous friend of David's let us spend the night when we couldn't get on a single flight and then we managed to get seats the next day.
In fact, after two days, and I mean from 5:30 in the morning to 11:00 at night, of trying to fly out of Boston ten years ago, we never flew standby domestically again. David's priority was just too low compared to Delta and United employees and their families and wasn't worth the risk and frustration. We caved and bought Air Tran tickets every time.
So, off Issam and Haike went yesterday morning to attempt the only Lufthansa Atlanta flight of the day. And back they came. Not a problem. I didn't even change the sheets on their beds.
We discussed the whole standby issue again, this time at the Indian restaurant around the corner from our house (butter chicken, yum!). We have plans to fly to Atlanta for a visit next week, so all during dinner I kept saying to myself, "Thank God the tickets Lufthansa gives us to fly home a few times a year are
confirmed seats. No more standby for us. That would drive me crazy." (Cue ominous-sounding music.)
Issam and family did finally make it out this morning, though not on the Atlanta flight. They had to fly into Washington DC and then catch another flight down to Atlanta.
Grandpa and Grandma also made it no problem onto their flight this morning to Finland to visit family for a few days. See? When standby works, it's awesome!